Relationship Quiz


Relationship Quiz: How Do Others Perceive You?

Directions:  On a sheet of paper, list the numbers 1-15. Write your answer (a, b or c) next to the corresponding number. After you have answered all the questions, add up your points with the Point System chart at the end of the quiz. Add your score and find out how people view you in your relationships. Have fun and the more honest you are, the more accurate your results!


  1. After a big fight with your boyfriend, are you quick to apologize?

    1. All the time
    2. About half the time
    3. None of the time

  1. I would say my boyfriend is:

    1. Selfish
    2. Giving
    3. Both

  1. During sex, I generally prefer to be the:

    1. Giver
    2. Receiver
    3. Both

  1. In relationships, I am my number one priority.

    1. Usually
    2. Sometimes
    3. Almost never

  1. Most of the time, I:

    1. Give affection
    2. Receive affection
    3. Both give and receive affection

  1. I am jealous

    1. A lot of the time
    2. Some of the time
    3. Rarely, if ever

  1. I am usually the one to end my relationships.

    1. Almost always
    2. Almost never
    3. Half the time

  1. On average, my significant relationships last:

    1. 3 mos.- 2 yrs.
    2. 2 yrs.- 5 yrs.
    3. 5 yrs. or more

  1. When it comes to time management in my daily life, I am usually:

    1. Always playing catch up with work, social affairs, cleaning etc.
    2. On top of things
    3. Leisurely and slow, nothing is too pressing

  1. I find myself worrying:

    1. Always
    2. Sometimes
    3. Rarely

  1. I have been cheated on:

    1. A lot
    2. Once or twice
    3. Not to my knowledge

  1. I do not like being alone.

    1. True
    2. False
    3. It really depends

  1. In confrontation with others, I consider myself to be:

    1. Assertive
    2. Blasé
    3. Neither

  1. It would bother me if people thought I was selfish.

    1. True
    2. False
    3. It depends on who it was

  1. If I could change one thing about myself, it would be:

    1. Lose weight
    2. Gain wisdom
    3. Depends on the day, both



Points System


  1. a-1, b-3, c-2
  2. a-1, b-3, c-2
  3. a-1, b-2, c-3
  4. a-3, b-2, c-1
  5. a-1, b-2, c-3
  6. a-1, b-2, c-3
  7. a-2, b-1, c-3
  8. a-1, b-2, c-3
  9. a-1, b-2, c-3
  10. a-1, b-2, c-3
  11. a-1, b-3, c-2
  12. a-1, b-3, c-2
  13. a-1, b-3, c-2
  14. a-1, b-3, c-2
  15. a-1, b-3, c-2



Results



35-45 points “Little Buddha”

You may not seek that people follow you, but that is why you are looked upon as a natural leader. Strong, self-assured and very easy-going, you are likened to a magical, little Buddha in many respects. You are calm, cool and collected. Your friends see you as someone who will cheer them up at the drop of a hat. The people in your life wonder how you can remain happy and detached in crises. Your advice is often sought. You know who you are and what you want in life and relationships. Your creative outlook has everyone looking to see, “How’d she do that?” Caution: A tendency to worry for the world around you could bring you into a depression.


25-35 points “Old Faithful”

With your independent spirit, you are ready to take on the world. Practicality and organization lurk behind every corner of your thoughts. You are perceived by your peers as a loyal, faithful, rainy-day friend. You are as reliable as they come and responsibility is your middle name. When making decisions, you weigh all ends of the stick before making your final choice. However, this can lead to indecisiveness and procrastination. You have the ability to think everything through and see all sides of the coin. Caution: Be aware of loose ends, they could come back to haunt you!


15-25 points “Idle Irene”

Due to your social nature and fun-loving humor, you can be the life of the party. You tend to put others first, possibly for all the wrong reasons. You have a need for others to validate and approve. However, you have intelligence beyond measure. If you look outside of yourself, there is a world that seeks to love you and you need not even ask!  You are loved because you are you and have the ability to create your life at this very moment. Trust yourself and take the leap. There is no time like the present! Caution: Beware of being too wishy-washy, a bigger backbone may be in order.
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